Another Father's Day

Another year of celebrating this man and his role in our lives. Since my father died unexpectedly in 1995, I have been more aware of this day in which we celebrate the role that the men in our lives fill. I miss my father, I think more every year. Maybe because my son in laws have never had the honor of meeting him and that my grandchildren have not had the pleasure of being tossed around and teased by their great grandpa. Maybe it's because I'm getting older and there are so many things that have happened in these past 22 years that I know he would have wanted to be a part.

So this day means a lot to me and the fact that the important and loved man in my life is still here to be celebrated for the role that he has filled as husband, father and grandpa. He loves his family - that is for sure and for certain. Not much will get this man emotional except when he starts talking about his kids and his grandkids. He will do anything for them. He will sacrifice most anything for the chance to show them once again how much he loves them.

So raise a glass or a cup with me to this man Steve Miller - the man of my heart. And be grateful for the men in your lives and the roles that they fill. Because one day, they won't be there and their absence is keenly felt. The role of "father" is huge and I hate the reality that the role of father has been greatly diminished in our society. Being a father is not just spreading around your DNA - it is a God given responsibility and privilege to raise up a child and to train them how to be and live in this world. Men you need to fill that role with pride and distinction. Don't allow the pressures of this world and culture take that away from you. Your children need you to be present for them - not just physically but emotionally as well.